Love is the kind of thing that’s already happening by the time you notice it, that’s how it works, and no matter how old you get, that doesn’t change. Except that you can break it up into two entirely distinct types — love where there’s an end in sight and love where there isn’t.
You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else.
It is okay to want your own happiness. It’s okay to care about yourself the most. You are not obligated to sit there and smile and swallow every bit of shit everyone heaps on you. You are more than furniture, you’re more than window dressing, you’re not their shiny toy. You’re human, and you have the right to say “That was shitty of you”. You have a right to protest your own mistreatment and set boundaries for respectful interactions. The rest of the world doesn’t realize you have this right, and they will act offended and appalled when you exercise it, but it is yours.
I was definitely born in the wrong area, I meant to live on a year round warm beach, living by the currents, tides and sun.
I think a lot of people tend to forget this little fact.. WE ARE YOUNG yet. Give us time, we’ll find our way.
I honestly can not help but laugh my ass off when a friend comes to me and says, “she’s doing it again.” and every time i’m like what are you talking about? Because its the last thing on my mind. Follow my life all you want, I’ll continue to display how happy I am with how things are going in my life and the people in it. Enjoy!